If you are reading this, it’s likely that either you or someone you care about has been part of an emotionally abusive relationship. Sadly, many times this type of abuse is also hidden abuse; often, making it difficult for the recipient to appropriately recognize and get help. The isolation of pain and confusion may not leave the evidence of outward injury, but inwardly damaging every fiber of who we are. The more we learn about this type of abuse, the more equipped we are to break free from its oppressive deceptions. Recovery from a toxic relationship is a process in gaining knowledge that will help to move forward into true healing.
If you are among those fortunate to have a church home and Pastoral leadership you are confident in, we share your joy! For these individuals, Spiritual and Biblical guidance is most beneficial from your Pastor, who can guide you in-line with the religion and belief system, with which you identify.
If, however, your Pastoral leadership believes you would benefit from faith-based services for your particular struggle, we are here.
We consider it an honor for the opportunity to share the beauty of Spiritual and Biblical guidance from God's Word as it applies to your life, your circumstance and your spiritual journey.
Many times, the circumstances of life or triggering events impact us in a profound way. The effects can manifest as immense feelings of depression. Situational depression is not the same as clinical diagnosis, which may require professional mental health therapy and doctor prescribed medication to assist with treatment.
Consider that situational depression can be a season you come through, to the other side.
If you are struggling with situational
depression, we are here for you.
Know that the oppressive dark clouds can break open and the sun can shine again!
Whatever the circumstance that led to your divorce, getting through the pain and range of emotions can seem impossible. The feelings of devastation can be overwhelming.
In the midst of the storm, it’s difficult to see hope; but healing after divorce is possible. Handling these emotions in a healthy way can make the difference between never truly healing and creating a future filled with promise, as you move forward to a new beginning. We understand the feelings that come along with the struggles and challenges you may be facing.
Although everyone's story is unique, the challenges are painfully similar.
We welcome you to find encouragement as we go through the process of healing together, and to find comfort in knowing that there is healing and you can be happy again!
Today’s culture is highly sexualized, and pornography use has become prevalent and normalized like never before. In fact, 1 in 5 mobile searches are specifically for pornography [Covenant Eyes]. Unfortunately, what many started out thinking was a harmless way to enhance sexual satisfaction, has become a prison of isolation. Pornography is progressive and real-life relationships cannot compare to the allure of fantasy; thereby, leaving hurt, dissatisfaction and damage to countless individuals and marriages in its wake. Studies show that compulsive pornography users “had greater impairments of sexual arousal and erectile difficulties in intimate relationships”. Additionally, that acting out with pornography accesses our powerful brain neurochemistry, leading many to quickly develop habitual use, and profoundly altered thought patterns. No matter who you are, or what walk of life you come from, we want you to feel comfortable and unashamed to reach out for help in gaining freedom. You can be confident in knowing that there is hope!
The overwhelming pain from the betrayal of adultery can feel like your heart has been shattered beyond repair. Whether the betrayal was an emotional or physical affair, the depth of pain can feel unbearable; often causing many to question, ‘Why did this happen? Is this the end of our marriage? Did you ever love me? Will I ever be able to trust you again? What else don’t I know?’
Please, don’t make a quick decision to end your marriage. The whirlwind of emotion can cloud our judgment, leading to choices we may later regret. The anger, feelings of rejection and broken trust, can lead to a place of complete despair. We want you to know that there is hope. It is possible to rebuild trust and a new, restored and beautiful marriage! We understand that while every situation of infidelity may be unique, the path to healing is possible for those who are willing. In fact, we have found that when a couple makes the decision to commit to restoring their marriage and rebuilding trust, the restoration results in a stronger, more intimate relationship than ever before!
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